Actually,I have never liked anyadults or those at my same age around me,cheap oakleys, from the classmates in school to the colleagues in work,no men who I have ever loved.Maybe it is a terrible saying,or it's a pity.However,it is true for me,a simple world,no interests in anyone around me.Always seeing those joking each other,I will ask in heart,“Is it funny,so boring!”hh,this is a world,in which others regard you boring and you think others silly.I won't like speaking any more.Most time of talking will I think a time-waste.All are boring topics and useless words.I just like to listen quietly or laugh for jokes.No matter others think me strange or I think so am I,I avoid beginning a useless topic with anyone,when to end it is really a question.I like to be nobody around others.Far from others,to have my time space.Get away from noise which makes a clean environment dirty.
A mind can build up one's soul,cheap
jerseys, a real character can form a real man.
Wednesday, April 26, 2017
Hey,don't draw harder,study harder!
In today's class,while I was teaching,a girl was drawing me.It will make me upset when I see so many students not listening to me everyday.However,each time I wanted to criticize them,I seemed to have nothing to say.I know I have already lost the ability of persuading anyone.For them,studying English is so boring and hard.Knowing few words,how can they study it well?Let it be!I feel that making them study hard is as impossible as climbing up the heaven.Different people choose different ways to live.Different procedures result in different ends.
As soon as the bell rang,the girl came to me with the picture,and told me it was me.It's a woman with an English book on her,it's really a bit like me.“Good drawing”I praised her instead of criticism.Facing many problems beween teachers and students,the best way to solve is to treat kindly,originally nothing serious.Active student is lovely,and those who make mistakes should also respected.I am tired of shouting to show how dignified the teacher is.
During the break,I went to her desk and got that picture by stealth.Because I think that's kindness of her,not a malice,cheap snapback hats, I want to keep it as a nice recall.In fact I am very satified with drawing.
As soon as the bell rang,the girl came to me with the picture,and told me it was me.It's a woman with an English book on her,it's really a bit like me.“Good drawing”I praised her instead of criticism.Facing many problems beween teachers and students,the best way to solve is to treat kindly,originally nothing serious.Active student is lovely,and those who make mistakes should also respected.I am tired of shouting to show how dignified the teacher is.
During the break,I went to her desk and got that picture by stealth.Because I think that's kindness of her,not a malice,cheap snapback hats, I want to keep it as a nice recall.In fact I am very satified with drawing.
A good thing to be a mom?
I regularly get up very early not only workingdays but also weekends,to watch my plants and let my rabbit out of the cage.With nobody around or strong sunshine,I feel more relaxed.It seems that my work at home is endless,cheap nfl jerseys
This early morning,he said that there were bucks in this neighbourhood,and wanted to bring one to mate with my rabbit in order to make her bear babies.I felt interesting and didn't refuse at that moment.Soon the old man went away.I also went out to buy food.When I finished shopping and came back tomy countyard,the old man was standing outside the door of the cage and tried to catch my rabbit.My husand was very puzzled at the door and not clear about everything.The old man told me that it was too hard to catch that buck,so he wanted to take my rabbit there.I felt a bit reluctant to see my rabbit being taken away,just for worrying his safety.I asked him how long it would take.He answered just one day was ok.My heart put down hearing it.When I put my food into the room,cheap hats, the old man was missing with my rabbit already.I wanted to ride to follow him,but couldn't see him yet.I just wanted to have a look at what an enviroment it would get in.I rode about,but failed to find them.After some minutes,I saw him back,I hurried to run out to ask about where it was and how my rabbit was.He said that he would take it back soon,because there were two bucks in that home,two were chasing one,hard to make it.haha,I got bright in heart,at least,she would be out of danger.Quickly,the old man appeared at the my house again with two bags.I knew one was mine,the other was that buck.The two were put into the cage together.I found my rabbit trembling hard there,she feared that buck so much.The buck was very fierce to pounce on her,even held her back hair with his mouth if she wanted to escape.I felt very terrified,too.The old man told me not to worry and it was nothing,they also needed to cultivate affections with each other.haha,Hearing that,wholesale jerseys
I found my rabbit was very unwilling.Originally,I hadn't thought too much,now,I hesitated so much!Is it a terrific dream for my rabbit?Does she want to be mom?After making it,will she like to go on staying with that buck?That buck is sure to be taken back soon,will she be lonely?After that,can she live so ease as before?Including human,bearing baby is a painful procesure, how about her?Once several babies born,can she bear to get separated from them quickly? It's very cruel! After all, it is impossible for me to raise so many.
With so many questions,I really don't know her real feeling.But I have decided I will leave one baby for her to be her partners.Of course,I prefer to nothing to happen, back to our and her past life.
Many things depend,yesterday,cheap fake oakleys, I didn't know what it would happen today,and she never knew there would be another buck breaking into her life.
This early morning,he said that there were bucks in this neighbourhood,and wanted to bring one to mate with my rabbit in order to make her bear babies.I felt interesting and didn't refuse at that moment.Soon the old man went away.I also went out to buy food.When I finished shopping and came back tomy countyard,the old man was standing outside the door of the cage and tried to catch my rabbit.My husand was very puzzled at the door and not clear about everything.The old man told me that it was too hard to catch that buck,so he wanted to take my rabbit there.I felt a bit reluctant to see my rabbit being taken away,just for worrying his safety.I asked him how long it would take.He answered just one day was ok.My heart put down hearing it.When I put my food into the room,cheap hats, the old man was missing with my rabbit already.I wanted to ride to follow him,but couldn't see him yet.I just wanted to have a look at what an enviroment it would get in.I rode about,but failed to find them.After some minutes,I saw him back,I hurried to run out to ask about where it was and how my rabbit was.He said that he would take it back soon,because there were two bucks in that home,two were chasing one,hard to make it.haha,I got bright in heart,at least,she would be out of danger.Quickly,the old man appeared at the my house again with two bags.I knew one was mine,the other was that buck.The two were put into the cage together.I found my rabbit trembling hard there,she feared that buck so much.The buck was very fierce to pounce on her,even held her back hair with his mouth if she wanted to escape.I felt very terrified,too.The old man told me not to worry and it was nothing,they also needed to cultivate affections with each other.haha,Hearing that,wholesale jerseys
I found my rabbit was very unwilling.Originally,I hadn't thought too much,now,I hesitated so much!Is it a terrific dream for my rabbit?Does she want to be mom?After making it,will she like to go on staying with that buck?That buck is sure to be taken back soon,will she be lonely?After that,can she live so ease as before?Including human,bearing baby is a painful procesure, how about her?Once several babies born,can she bear to get separated from them quickly? It's very cruel! After all, it is impossible for me to raise so many.
With so many questions,I really don't know her real feeling.But I have decided I will leave one baby for her to be her partners.Of course,I prefer to nothing to happen, back to our and her past life.
Many things depend,yesterday,cheap fake oakleys, I didn't know what it would happen today,and she never knew there would be another buck breaking into her life.
Friday, April 21, 2017
Thanks for his visiting.
Cherish each other while being together,say goodbye when no karma between each other.
I love such a sentence,cheap mlb hats, although it sounds a bit cold.
Between couples,friends,lovers,teachers and students,classmates....except family.We should learn to true to each other while facing,then each nice moment of that time lasts forever.Our life is merely made up of those pictures.
Some time, remember some face,I know he is just a passings-by in my life,it may be a handsome face,a lovely face or a pure face...In a word,I will never forget them,although forgetting some of names.
In most occasion,the situation where they know my name,but I don't know theirs always came to me.I said sorry to them often for being unable to remember them,in fact,I wouldn't try to remember their names as well later.Just because I don't wanna get too much things I have no interests in into my mind.
Today,cheap oakley sunglasses, I said out his name the moment I saw him,who has become a tall young man.A student of mine several years ago,time is such a magic machine and it can change everything. We had a happy talk, and I hope that this visiting won't make him disappointed.After all,I changed as well,a bit strange but excited.Thank him for visiting me.To be frank,I only care those who only care about me.If someone cares many including me,oh sorry,he won't be my important person.
I asked him whether he just wanted to see me today,he said yes.
I remembered that we passed each other on the road of the school gate several days ago,both very busy to work,just said hello,cheap nfl jerseys, no stop to talk.It's years since we saw each other.
Thank him for this visiting only for me.
Because I only I like"the only"
I love such a sentence,cheap mlb hats, although it sounds a bit cold.
Between couples,friends,lovers,teachers and students,classmates....except family.We should learn to true to each other while facing,then each nice moment of that time lasts forever.Our life is merely made up of those pictures.
Some time, remember some face,I know he is just a passings-by in my life,it may be a handsome face,a lovely face or a pure face...In a word,I will never forget them,although forgetting some of names.
In most occasion,the situation where they know my name,but I don't know theirs always came to me.I said sorry to them often for being unable to remember them,in fact,I wouldn't try to remember their names as well later.Just because I don't wanna get too much things I have no interests in into my mind.
Today,cheap oakley sunglasses, I said out his name the moment I saw him,who has become a tall young man.A student of mine several years ago,time is such a magic machine and it can change everything. We had a happy talk, and I hope that this visiting won't make him disappointed.After all,I changed as well,a bit strange but excited.Thank him for visiting me.To be frank,I only care those who only care about me.If someone cares many including me,oh sorry,he won't be my important person.
I asked him whether he just wanted to see me today,he said yes.
I remembered that we passed each other on the road of the school gate several days ago,both very busy to work,just said hello,cheap nfl jerseys, no stop to talk.It's years since we saw each other.
Thank him for this visiting only for me.
Because I only I like"the only"
good kid
At this moment,I am attending the first parents' meeting of son's Grade Eight.
As before,fake oakley sunglasses, I went into the classroom on time and saw lots of parents seated.A mid-aged manteacher was standing beside the teacher's desk,it's certain that he is the right new mainteacher.
When I was passing him,he was so nice that he asked me who my kid was.I told him my son's name.He pointed out the position for me,then said“a good kid”.I didn't know how to answer it,but smiled.
The scores of this exam are quite good.I hope it can encourage son to work harder.
Yeah,son is my pride.Wish his first dream to come true in two years.
hh.Son drew a map for me to find his seat easier.He had done like this several times,wholesale jerseys, really considerate and lovely.
As before,fake oakley sunglasses, I went into the classroom on time and saw lots of parents seated.A mid-aged manteacher was standing beside the teacher's desk,it's certain that he is the right new mainteacher.
When I was passing him,he was so nice that he asked me who my kid was.I told him my son's name.He pointed out the position for me,then said“a good kid”.I didn't know how to answer it,but smiled.
The scores of this exam are quite good.I hope it can encourage son to work harder.
Yeah,son is my pride.Wish his first dream to come true in two years.
hh.Son drew a map for me to find his seat easier.He had done like this several times,wholesale jerseys, really considerate and lovely.
In fact,it's a surprise.
Twenty years ago,as a teacher,receiving gifts is a really happy thing,because they are all from true hearts.If children do love you,cheap jerseys
, they will show you by sending gifts on some special days.They only did it to those they really like,never thought about whether it would.make other teachers angry.So I treasured them as well.I never felt disappointed!All is natural.
Later,I changed the school and was treated by students so well as before.I felt inflatable,even eagered to show off.Year by year,I found fewer and fewer gifts in some festivals.I was not already the most welcomed teacher.I didn't feel good of that,disapponited.From then on,I began to pay attention to other teachers' desks,and found even some got nothing.At that time,I could know others' bad feelings.So I hid the gifts by stealth to avoid making others uhappy.
Slowly,I found I had become a type which students didn't like much.Because very few I received,I expected to get more,just liked being loved more by students.I felt a bit worried when the festivals came.Because they could really brought me good mood.
Later,I changed my mind,I am not different from other teachers.Not receiving gifts is normal.I regard it as a very natural thing,nothing can effect my happiness.Instead,once I get some,cheap snapback hats, I think it as a big surprise.I would like give mine out to those who got nothing.
Thank that girl for my first receiving one for Halloween.
, they will show you by sending gifts on some special days.They only did it to those they really like,never thought about whether it would.make other teachers angry.So I treasured them as well.I never felt disappointed!All is natural.
Later,I changed the school and was treated by students so well as before.I felt inflatable,even eagered to show off.Year by year,I found fewer and fewer gifts in some festivals.I was not already the most welcomed teacher.I didn't feel good of that,disapponited.From then on,I began to pay attention to other teachers' desks,and found even some got nothing.At that time,I could know others' bad feelings.So I hid the gifts by stealth to avoid making others uhappy.
Slowly,I found I had become a type which students didn't like much.Because very few I received,I expected to get more,just liked being loved more by students.I felt a bit worried when the festivals came.Because they could really brought me good mood.
Later,I changed my mind,I am not different from other teachers.Not receiving gifts is normal.I regard it as a very natural thing,nothing can effect my happiness.Instead,once I get some,cheap snapback hats, I think it as a big surprise.I would like give mine out to those who got nothing.
Thank that girl for my first receiving one for Halloween.
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
No Topic
July is coming, this is the first time hard to find right topic to write since the beginning of this year, doesn’t mean that I have nothing to do, in fact I was busy at the last few weeks, but no one to have the strong desire let me to write it down on my blog.
I was busy with my house property transaction related selling and buying, in other words I exchanged one house for my daughter, totally out of my account it is really complicated for those the political procedures, cheap oakley sunglasses, made me nut and cannot be summary to my pen.
I felt regret that I have not seen my intimate friend Anita in Cambodia since more than one year, after I knew her in Beijing right now and this time she did not inform me she was back, and she will be return at tomorrow, on the phone I can feel she is not so happy to say hello to me, maybe she was so disappointed me lost my words to see her in Cambodia, I must make my plan in this year, this and that, how can I to be my topic write it down.
This Thursday Tiger was on business trip, he blamed me his shirts were not ironed before he left, I don’t like ironed any stuffs even my clothes, surely his wordy make me unhappy all days, no mind to be tell on the paper.
Long time did not visit my mom, only the phone call to know she is quite ok from her voice, in fact I asked for many times to see her, but I got the feedback are all the same, if nothing special please don’t come to see me, my mom said, the traffic and the weather were always the reasons to give me excuse.
So please tell me which topics I can be my blog of today, maybe you are almost sleepy to read here, cheap nfl jerseys, me too, it is really hard to find the right topic to let you can remember me for a while.
I was busy with my house property transaction related selling and buying, in other words I exchanged one house for my daughter, totally out of my account it is really complicated for those the political procedures, cheap oakley sunglasses, made me nut and cannot be summary to my pen.
I felt regret that I have not seen my intimate friend Anita in Cambodia since more than one year, after I knew her in Beijing right now and this time she did not inform me she was back, and she will be return at tomorrow, on the phone I can feel she is not so happy to say hello to me, maybe she was so disappointed me lost my words to see her in Cambodia, I must make my plan in this year, this and that, how can I to be my topic write it down.
This Thursday Tiger was on business trip, he blamed me his shirts were not ironed before he left, I don’t like ironed any stuffs even my clothes, surely his wordy make me unhappy all days, no mind to be tell on the paper.
Long time did not visit my mom, only the phone call to know she is quite ok from her voice, in fact I asked for many times to see her, but I got the feedback are all the same, if nothing special please don’t come to see me, my mom said, the traffic and the weather were always the reasons to give me excuse.
So please tell me which topics I can be my blog of today, maybe you are almost sleepy to read here, cheap nfl jerseys, me too, it is really hard to find the right topic to let you can remember me for a while.
First time to be here,shanghai!
2017-4-16,I quitted my first job and then I came here,shanghai!
It took me serveral months to find a satisfied job,wholesale jerseys, and then I get a position in a E-commerce conpany and has worked over one month.
My senior is a strange man.
The first day I came the company,I was told that I will be dismissed anytime because I can do nothing and our company is bad!He told us that the director is a useless guy and the only thing he can do is command others!when he saied this ,he stared into my eyes.I was shocked and begin can't sleep at night.In the first few days,I often worked overtime because of worry and anxiety.
After one month,I learned more about the skills and more familiar about the business,I got a little confidence and do not afraid of him like before.
I don't like him!he is a strange man with strange characteristics and stout,ugly skeleton,tough and red face and explain everything of the company almost everyday!I was confused why didn't he jump to another company.
I try to make every workday busy and fulfilled,and make a further plan of my job.I learn about the knowledge about Sqlsever and Hive,study my english and plan to sign an oral english class when I have money left.
I want it could be not so difficulty when I find a job again,cheap mlb hats, I hope I can have more chances to be in a professional company and get better salary in the next three and five years!
It took me serveral months to find a satisfied job,wholesale jerseys, and then I get a position in a E-commerce conpany and has worked over one month.
My senior is a strange man.
The first day I came the company,I was told that I will be dismissed anytime because I can do nothing and our company is bad!He told us that the director is a useless guy and the only thing he can do is command others!when he saied this ,he stared into my eyes.I was shocked and begin can't sleep at night.In the first few days,I often worked overtime because of worry and anxiety.
After one month,I learned more about the skills and more familiar about the business,I got a little confidence and do not afraid of him like before.
I don't like him!he is a strange man with strange characteristics and stout,ugly skeleton,tough and red face and explain everything of the company almost everyday!I was confused why didn't he jump to another company.
I try to make every workday busy and fulfilled,and make a further plan of my job.I learn about the knowledge about Sqlsever and Hive,study my english and plan to sign an oral english class when I have money left.
I want it could be not so difficulty when I find a job again,cheap mlb hats, I hope I can have more chances to be in a professional company and get better salary in the next three and five years!
if you find your gift, you have no time for bored
As far as I’ve noticed, there are quite a lot of people feel lonely or bored no matter they work 8 hours a day or doing Gym and exercises for keeping themselves busy after work, cheap jerseys, but they still find something missing. They need relationship, they need friends.
However, after 6 months or so, if not fortunately enough, the relationship break, which causes triple pain than being alone. If you are looking for friendship, sometimes it is also not that reliable. I found one funny post: “I’m at that awkward age where half my friends are engaged and having babies and the other half are too drunk to even find their phones.”
That’s very true, friendship can last for a life time, but most friends we don’ get chance to see them, we only communicate with them on wechat or facebook by texting or seeing posting.
In China, if you have never left your hometown since you were born, lucky you, you can hang up with lifetime classmates, friends. But if you pursue a dream go to a bigger city like Shanghai etc. or like me, being overseas. After finished my degree, almost half friends returned back to their own countries, cheap snapback hats, and most others getting married and having kids. There are very few left you can count on for sharing your feeling whenever you need them.
Then you might have to join activities in order to know more new friends, but all the relationship, friendship can’t help you out from feeling loneliness, they are just temporary for a short time companionship. Most time you have to be alone.
How do I know it? Because I have experienced exactly the same feeling as you guys, being bored, being lonely, looking for someone else help me out, but in vain. It was until I started English writing, especially created wechat account : Englishpassion, I am becoming so busy, active, happy and energetic, it is like a lifetime friend who accompany me all my life.
Sorry, I don’t mean friendship is not important. Truly we need friendship very much, but it also depends on the other side, you can’t fully control it. Your gift is different; it will be with you forever. Eg, someone like painting or photographing, then go for it, you might be famous one day, who knows.
You don’t have to quit your job, you can do it in your free time, it is not for money, but one day you might can use your gift making money once you master it. Anyway, fake oakley sunglasses, it will make your life full, you are fulfilling your potential, that’s the reason we come to this world.
As it is said passion is a powerful driving force that helps us live with energy and excitement, and helps us live life to the fullest, therefore, find out your unique gift, do thing with passion.
However, after 6 months or so, if not fortunately enough, the relationship break, which causes triple pain than being alone. If you are looking for friendship, sometimes it is also not that reliable. I found one funny post: “I’m at that awkward age where half my friends are engaged and having babies and the other half are too drunk to even find their phones.”
That’s very true, friendship can last for a life time, but most friends we don’ get chance to see them, we only communicate with them on wechat or facebook by texting or seeing posting.
In China, if you have never left your hometown since you were born, lucky you, you can hang up with lifetime classmates, friends. But if you pursue a dream go to a bigger city like Shanghai etc. or like me, being overseas. After finished my degree, almost half friends returned back to their own countries, cheap snapback hats, and most others getting married and having kids. There are very few left you can count on for sharing your feeling whenever you need them.
Then you might have to join activities in order to know more new friends, but all the relationship, friendship can’t help you out from feeling loneliness, they are just temporary for a short time companionship. Most time you have to be alone.
How do I know it? Because I have experienced exactly the same feeling as you guys, being bored, being lonely, looking for someone else help me out, but in vain. It was until I started English writing, especially created wechat account : Englishpassion, I am becoming so busy, active, happy and energetic, it is like a lifetime friend who accompany me all my life.
Sorry, I don’t mean friendship is not important. Truly we need friendship very much, but it also depends on the other side, you can’t fully control it. Your gift is different; it will be with you forever. Eg, someone like painting or photographing, then go for it, you might be famous one day, who knows.
You don’t have to quit your job, you can do it in your free time, it is not for money, but one day you might can use your gift making money once you master it. Anyway, fake oakley sunglasses, it will make your life full, you are fulfilling your potential, that’s the reason we come to this world.
As it is said passion is a powerful driving force that helps us live with energy and excitement, and helps us live life to the fullest, therefore, find out your unique gift, do thing with passion.
Sunday, April 16, 2017
Walking
Yesterday, it was a very nice day.The sun was shining brightly and air was comfortable.My mood was very pleased so I was walking in the public park.Suddenly, I saw a cat sleeping on the grass.But next to the cat, cheap
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cultural differences- going dutch or Chinese term "AA"
Farewell lunch for a lovely Norwegian girl
10 Years ago, I lived on campus- Chisholm College.
A very pretty Norwegian girl invited our floor mates for farewell lunch.
“Sounds great, I love it.”
When I went to the Uni canteen, my friends were queuing up in front of the canteen counter paying their own meal.
“Is that real?” I wondered, “We have to pay ourselves?”
In China
In my memory of China, when I attended birthday or farewell parties,cheap nfl jerseys, I bought one gift, the host would definitely provide a nice meal.
Aussie friends' birthdays
Once more, the time I attended one Aussie friend’s birthday party, my friend’s siblings, parents, relatives and friends were invited.
To my surprise, each guest paid own dish including my friend’s family members.
That would be the great honour if my friend received cups of free drinks in the restaurant from the people who attended the birthday party.
Once more, on one Aussie girl’s birthday, I bought her a gift, she bought guests drinks and entree platters for share, but I would not expect a free main dish from her —I’d pay my own.
In China
However, In China, the birthday person or married couples will pay for everything from entrée to the main meal, dessert, fruits, drinks even cigarettes.
In return, cheap snapbacks, guests will either buy a luxury gift or simply gives him or her red packet for Lucky money which is most popular.
In recent years, it has become increasingly stressful for both sides.
Because the food is getting better and more expensive in the restaurant which also causes the burden for guests as the red packet is becoming bigger and bigger, and sometimes it occupies a big percentage for a low-income earner.
My childhood- Chinese New Year
One of the biggest things in my childhood was Chinese New Year’s Day as I could have a few days’ feast at my Uncle’s house. (Well, that's because we usually didn't have sufficient food available that time, so New Year's day was the happiest moment.)
I do appreciate my Uncle, Aunt and others who spent the efforts, cheap replica oakleys, time and energy for preparing nice meals: 2 big tables for adults and 1 small table for kids (total around 30 people).
For Aussies, you might be surprised about that, we did give them some unprepared food and contributed a little bit cash.
Whereas we didn’t give them help except chatting, eating, playing cards, listening to the live music some relatives' playing.
Christmas Lunch with one Aussie friend's family
I used to take it for granted until I attended a Christmas dinner at one Aussie friend’s house, then I realized how comfortable life that was.
For a Christmas lunch at my friend’s place was pretty simple, it was like a potluck, each household brought a few dishes for share.
The Aussie family did organize very well beforehand, for example, one family prepared roasted meat, another one made desserts, or someone brought fruits, snacks, wholesale nfl jerseys, the rest prepared salad or cheese platter etc.
At the end of the day, everyone brought leftover home, so it’s simple and easy, which won't take a huge amount of time for the host.
In Daily life
When I had dinner at restaurants with one girl friend who has just been back from China, she insisted on paying for my part, but I said:“Let’s just split the bill, I prefer a simple friendship.”
Because we don’t have to remember that we owe each other a meal, then one day we might have to arrange the time to buy back the meal.
For splitting the bill, we can meet at any time, any restaurant, even someone else can join, which is really easy and flexible.
Chinese tradition
In China, someone with overseas' background, or young generation, or people who work in foreign-run companies are likely influenced by western culture- paying for themselves when going outside with colleagues, classmates and even friends.
The elder generation, cheap nfl hats, the Chinese culture lovers have the idea that men are supposed to pay ladies for the restaurants as they think men should be generous, look after ladies.
“That’s so mean, ask a lady share bill with me? No, I pay for all.” I would expect my dad absolutely say that to me.
I know, he’s a very traditional responsible most kind gentleman.
In China, when close friends dining out, it is quite normal, one person paying for this time, the others paying next time in order to keep a long lasting friendship, sounds good idea.
My experience in Australia
In Australia, from my experience with Aussie good friends,cheap oakley sunglasses, we split the bill, I am used to it actually and pretty much enjoy it.
10 Years ago, I lived on campus- Chisholm College.
A very pretty Norwegian girl invited our floor mates for farewell lunch.
“Sounds great, I love it.”
When I went to the Uni canteen, my friends were queuing up in front of the canteen counter paying their own meal.
“Is that real?” I wondered, “We have to pay ourselves?”
In China
In my memory of China, when I attended birthday or farewell parties,cheap nfl jerseys, I bought one gift, the host would definitely provide a nice meal.
Aussie friends' birthdays
Once more, the time I attended one Aussie friend’s birthday party, my friend’s siblings, parents, relatives and friends were invited.
To my surprise, each guest paid own dish including my friend’s family members.
That would be the great honour if my friend received cups of free drinks in the restaurant from the people who attended the birthday party.
Once more, on one Aussie girl’s birthday, I bought her a gift, she bought guests drinks and entree platters for share, but I would not expect a free main dish from her —I’d pay my own.
In China
However, In China, the birthday person or married couples will pay for everything from entrée to the main meal, dessert, fruits, drinks even cigarettes.
In return, cheap snapbacks, guests will either buy a luxury gift or simply gives him or her red packet for Lucky money which is most popular.
In recent years, it has become increasingly stressful for both sides.
Because the food is getting better and more expensive in the restaurant which also causes the burden for guests as the red packet is becoming bigger and bigger, and sometimes it occupies a big percentage for a low-income earner.
My childhood- Chinese New Year
One of the biggest things in my childhood was Chinese New Year’s Day as I could have a few days’ feast at my Uncle’s house. (Well, that's because we usually didn't have sufficient food available that time, so New Year's day was the happiest moment.)
I do appreciate my Uncle, Aunt and others who spent the efforts, cheap replica oakleys, time and energy for preparing nice meals: 2 big tables for adults and 1 small table for kids (total around 30 people).
For Aussies, you might be surprised about that, we did give them some unprepared food and contributed a little bit cash.
Whereas we didn’t give them help except chatting, eating, playing cards, listening to the live music some relatives' playing.
Christmas Lunch with one Aussie friend's family
I used to take it for granted until I attended a Christmas dinner at one Aussie friend’s house, then I realized how comfortable life that was.
For a Christmas lunch at my friend’s place was pretty simple, it was like a potluck, each household brought a few dishes for share.
The Aussie family did organize very well beforehand, for example, one family prepared roasted meat, another one made desserts, or someone brought fruits, snacks, wholesale nfl jerseys, the rest prepared salad or cheese platter etc.
At the end of the day, everyone brought leftover home, so it’s simple and easy, which won't take a huge amount of time for the host.
In Daily life
When I had dinner at restaurants with one girl friend who has just been back from China, she insisted on paying for my part, but I said:“Let’s just split the bill, I prefer a simple friendship.”
Because we don’t have to remember that we owe each other a meal, then one day we might have to arrange the time to buy back the meal.
For splitting the bill, we can meet at any time, any restaurant, even someone else can join, which is really easy and flexible.
Chinese tradition
In China, someone with overseas' background, or young generation, or people who work in foreign-run companies are likely influenced by western culture- paying for themselves when going outside with colleagues, classmates and even friends.
The elder generation, cheap nfl hats, the Chinese culture lovers have the idea that men are supposed to pay ladies for the restaurants as they think men should be generous, look after ladies.
“That’s so mean, ask a lady share bill with me? No, I pay for all.” I would expect my dad absolutely say that to me.
I know, he’s a very traditional responsible most kind gentleman.
In China, when close friends dining out, it is quite normal, one person paying for this time, the others paying next time in order to keep a long lasting friendship, sounds good idea.
My experience in Australia
In Australia, from my experience with Aussie good friends,cheap oakley sunglasses, we split the bill, I am used to it actually and pretty much enjoy it.
Thursday, April 13, 2017
Cold wind
Time proves the best vow that we have made. In the quite deep night, the wind blows on the face, yet not that cold, it tells the story of life. Whenever we feel a must to be alone, we more or less get that feeling which is the moment that we should think seriously.
On the way home, I still see leaves of willows hanging there. Probably, some days later, they completely fade away, leaving only naked branches. Winter often catalyses the process of being chilly. It is not cold, if we really face it. Hotness of the summer sometimes gives us the illusion the cold days are not there. We may just spend time having the current days. While we realise its coldness until the turning point that all of things are ready for the imminent winter, we sense that is the over of summer and the arrival of winter is already on the corner.
The temperature freezes the mind, and the flows of memory become more clearly as if they repeat the old days and as if we were living in the past. God knows. We are still here, standing on the ground. Some guys could be more fortunate to promote, others are still wondering in the puddle. Everyone was born in the different background of family and education, cheap jerseys, we gain to be unique and are doomed to be sailing to different destination. Yet, we come across many people and friends, strangers and passers. All of those man are only part of experience combined into the entire life.
Leaves will decay and livings will suffer the weathering and finally convert into rocks and sands. Thoughts should be stored into those sands and recount the legend of every common being. Whenever I put away files and take the rest, I sink into the pondering of none being which stands for everything that I might run into my mind would be the film of my own treasure. Backward, I was the guy, moving on, I am going to be the another one.
The greeting from a Long Time No See friend, sometimes, just stirs the ripples of memory. A sudden fellow who comes to be in the middle of the could either cause the painful rethinking or the warmth of friendship. Some pages of my note books now still deposit the dandelions as the ideal specimen.
On the way home, I still see leaves of willows hanging there. Probably, some days later, they completely fade away, leaving only naked branches. Winter often catalyses the process of being chilly. It is not cold, if we really face it. Hotness of the summer sometimes gives us the illusion the cold days are not there. We may just spend time having the current days. While we realise its coldness until the turning point that all of things are ready for the imminent winter, we sense that is the over of summer and the arrival of winter is already on the corner.
The temperature freezes the mind, and the flows of memory become more clearly as if they repeat the old days and as if we were living in the past. God knows. We are still here, standing on the ground. Some guys could be more fortunate to promote, others are still wondering in the puddle. Everyone was born in the different background of family and education, cheap jerseys, we gain to be unique and are doomed to be sailing to different destination. Yet, we come across many people and friends, strangers and passers. All of those man are only part of experience combined into the entire life.
Leaves will decay and livings will suffer the weathering and finally convert into rocks and sands. Thoughts should be stored into those sands and recount the legend of every common being. Whenever I put away files and take the rest, I sink into the pondering of none being which stands for everything that I might run into my mind would be the film of my own treasure. Backward, I was the guy, moving on, I am going to be the another one.
The greeting from a Long Time No See friend, sometimes, just stirs the ripples of memory. A sudden fellow who comes to be in the middle of the could either cause the painful rethinking or the warmth of friendship. Some pages of my note books now still deposit the dandelions as the ideal specimen.
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The ring of Gyges I
There was once a shepherd named Gyges in the service of the rule of Lydia. There was a gaint thunderstorm, cheap fake oakleys, and an earthquake broke open the ground and created a chasm at the place where he was tending his sheep. Seeing this, he was filled with amazement and went down into it. And there he saw a hollow bronze horse. There was window-like openings in it, and peeking in, he saw a corpse wearing nothing but a gold ring on his finger. So he took the ring and came out of the chasm. He wore the ring at his usual monthly meeting that reported to the king on the state of the flocks. And as he was sitting among the others, he happened to turn the setting of the ring towards himself, to the inside of the hand. And when he did this, he became invisible to those sitting near him, and they went on talking as if he had gone. He wondered about this, and fingering the ring, he turned the setting outwards again, and became visible, So he experimented with the ring to test whether it indeed had this power,cheap snapback hats, and it did. If he turned the setting inward, he became invisible, and if he turned it outward, he became visible again. When he realized this, he arranged to become one of the messengers sent to report to the king. And when he arrived there, he seduced the king's wife, with her help,attacked and killed the king, and took over the kingdom.
Having squandered my time for the sake of some temptation, I finally and fortunately found a plausible way to get out of the backwater. Without the basic common college student's social practice, I need a way just to say something, conforming to the rule and calming down to think of my own life.
Morality and law is a everlasting topic in human history. This story can be a good starting point,cheap oakleys, though a little superstitious and increadible. What's more, a well-known conclusion following that those who act in conformity with the moral code of their society do so because they lack the power to do injustice.It's more about hypocrite and saint. Further study is going on.
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Having squandered my time for the sake of some temptation, I finally and fortunately found a plausible way to get out of the backwater. Without the basic common college student's social practice, I need a way just to say something, conforming to the rule and calming down to think of my own life.
Morality and law is a everlasting topic in human history. This story can be a good starting point,cheap oakleys, though a little superstitious and increadible. What's more, a well-known conclusion following that those who act in conformity with the moral code of their society do so because they lack the power to do injustice.It's more about hypocrite and saint. Further study is going on.
The ring of Gyges II
In our modern society, we tend to act in conformity with morality, to make sure our reputation be a better one. But if there were a ring, as the ring of Gyges, making you invisible and then,cheap nfl jerseys, what would you do by utilizing such a tool? What is the nature of morality and justice?
The question that we need to consider in the story of the ring of Gyges, is how people woulld act if they were perceived identically, regardless of how it is that they genuinely behave. If your act of immorality were invisible to the world, if you could behave immorality and nobody would see you, so that your reputation remained unscathed, how is it that you would behave? We might end up with behave immorality and that will showcase a fact that we just want to be seeming morality.
An intersting and meaningful experiment,cheap hats, devised by Batson, to find the relationship between real morality and seeming morality, shows an amazing statistical outcomes. It shows that most of us would behave morality when we feel being observed by somebody, even yourself in which case you can put a mirror in front of you when you make a decision. And many people may feel guilty when they did something selfish directly. But if you find a way to comfort your selfish decision, for example, flip a coin to decide who get the better chance, you tend to be composed and self-satisfied.
That is plausible and make sense. At most time, we follow the rules unconsciously, wholesale jerseys, affected by our environment and cultural atmosphere. If we disobey the rules, we may be punished by others.And seeming morality seem to be true in reality. Lust is endless and we need to explore the nature and our souls.Further study is going on.
The question that we need to consider in the story of the ring of Gyges, is how people woulld act if they were perceived identically, regardless of how it is that they genuinely behave. If your act of immorality were invisible to the world, if you could behave immorality and nobody would see you, so that your reputation remained unscathed, how is it that you would behave? We might end up with behave immorality and that will showcase a fact that we just want to be seeming morality.
An intersting and meaningful experiment,cheap hats, devised by Batson, to find the relationship between real morality and seeming morality, shows an amazing statistical outcomes. It shows that most of us would behave morality when we feel being observed by somebody, even yourself in which case you can put a mirror in front of you when you make a decision. And many people may feel guilty when they did something selfish directly. But if you find a way to comfort your selfish decision, for example, flip a coin to decide who get the better chance, you tend to be composed and self-satisfied.
That is plausible and make sense. At most time, we follow the rules unconsciously, wholesale jerseys, affected by our environment and cultural atmosphere. If we disobey the rules, we may be punished by others.And seeming morality seem to be true in reality. Lust is endless and we need to explore the nature and our souls.Further study is going on.
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