July is coming, this is the first time hard to find right topic to write since the beginning of this year, doesn’t mean that I have nothing to do, in fact I was busy at the last few weeks, but no one to have the strong desire let me to write it down on my blog.
I was busy with my house property transaction related selling and buying, in other words I exchanged one house for my daughter, totally out of my account it is really complicated for those the political procedures, cheap oakley sunglasses, made me nut and cannot be summary to my pen.
I felt regret that I have not seen my intimate friend Anita in Cambodia since more than one year, after I knew her in Beijing right now and this time she did not inform me she was back, and she will be return at tomorrow, on the phone I can feel she is not so happy to say hello to me, maybe she was so disappointed me lost my words to see her in Cambodia, I must make my plan in this year, this and that, how can I to be my topic write it down.
This Thursday Tiger was on business trip, he blamed me his shirts were not ironed before he left, I don’t like ironed any stuffs even my clothes, surely his wordy make me unhappy all days, no mind to be tell on the paper.
Long time did not visit my mom, only the phone call to know she is quite ok from her voice, in fact I asked for many times to see her, but I got the feedback are all the same, if nothing special please don’t come to see me, my mom said, the traffic and the weather were always the reasons to give me excuse.
So please tell me which topics I can be my blog of today, maybe you are almost sleepy to read here, cheap
nfl jerseys, me too, it is really hard to find the right topic to let you can remember me for a while.
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
First time to be here,shanghai!
2017-4-16,I quitted my first job and then I came here,shanghai!
It took me serveral months to find a satisfied job,wholesale jerseys, and then I get a position in a E-commerce conpany and has worked over one month.
My senior is a strange man.
The first day I came the company,I was told that I will be dismissed anytime because I can do nothing and our company is bad!He told us that the director is a useless guy and the only thing he can do is command others!when he saied this ,he stared into my eyes.I was shocked and begin can't sleep at night.In the first few days,I often worked overtime because of worry and anxiety.
After one month,I learned more about the skills and more familiar about the business,I got a little confidence and do not afraid of him like before.
I don't like him!he is a strange man with strange characteristics and stout,ugly skeleton,tough and red face and explain everything of the company almost everyday!I was confused why didn't he jump to another company.
I try to make every workday busy and fulfilled,and make a further plan of my job.I learn about the knowledge about Sqlsever and Hive,study my english and plan to sign an oral english class when I have money left.
I want it could be not so difficulty when I find a job again,cheap mlb hats, I hope I can have more chances to be in a professional company and get better salary in the next three and five years!
It took me serveral months to find a satisfied job,wholesale jerseys, and then I get a position in a E-commerce conpany and has worked over one month.
My senior is a strange man.
The first day I came the company,I was told that I will be dismissed anytime because I can do nothing and our company is bad!He told us that the director is a useless guy and the only thing he can do is command others!when he saied this ,he stared into my eyes.I was shocked and begin can't sleep at night.In the first few days,I often worked overtime because of worry and anxiety.
After one month,I learned more about the skills and more familiar about the business,I got a little confidence and do not afraid of him like before.
I don't like him!he is a strange man with strange characteristics and stout,ugly skeleton,tough and red face and explain everything of the company almost everyday!I was confused why didn't he jump to another company.
I try to make every workday busy and fulfilled,and make a further plan of my job.I learn about the knowledge about Sqlsever and Hive,study my english and plan to sign an oral english class when I have money left.
I want it could be not so difficulty when I find a job again,cheap mlb hats, I hope I can have more chances to be in a professional company and get better salary in the next three and five years!
if you find your gift, you have no time for bored
As far as I’ve noticed, there are quite a lot of people feel lonely or bored no matter they work 8 hours a day or doing Gym and exercises for keeping themselves busy after work, cheap jerseys, but they still find something missing. They need relationship, they need friends.
However, after 6 months or so, if not fortunately enough, the relationship break, which causes triple pain than being alone. If you are looking for friendship, sometimes it is also not that reliable. I found one funny post: “I’m at that awkward age where half my friends are engaged and having babies and the other half are too drunk to even find their phones.”
That’s very true, friendship can last for a life time, but most friends we don’ get chance to see them, we only communicate with them on wechat or facebook by texting or seeing posting.
In China, if you have never left your hometown since you were born, lucky you, you can hang up with lifetime classmates, friends. But if you pursue a dream go to a bigger city like Shanghai etc. or like me, being overseas. After finished my degree, almost half friends returned back to their own countries, cheap snapback hats, and most others getting married and having kids. There are very few left you can count on for sharing your feeling whenever you need them.
Then you might have to join activities in order to know more new friends, but all the relationship, friendship can’t help you out from feeling loneliness, they are just temporary for a short time companionship. Most time you have to be alone.
How do I know it? Because I have experienced exactly the same feeling as you guys, being bored, being lonely, looking for someone else help me out, but in vain. It was until I started English writing, especially created wechat account : Englishpassion, I am becoming so busy, active, happy and energetic, it is like a lifetime friend who accompany me all my life.
Sorry, I don’t mean friendship is not important. Truly we need friendship very much, but it also depends on the other side, you can’t fully control it. Your gift is different; it will be with you forever. Eg, someone like painting or photographing, then go for it, you might be famous one day, who knows.
You don’t have to quit your job, you can do it in your free time, it is not for money, but one day you might can use your gift making money once you master it. Anyway, fake oakley sunglasses, it will make your life full, you are fulfilling your potential, that’s the reason we come to this world.
As it is said passion is a powerful driving force that helps us live with energy and excitement, and helps us live life to the fullest, therefore, find out your unique gift, do thing with passion.
However, after 6 months or so, if not fortunately enough, the relationship break, which causes triple pain than being alone. If you are looking for friendship, sometimes it is also not that reliable. I found one funny post: “I’m at that awkward age where half my friends are engaged and having babies and the other half are too drunk to even find their phones.”
That’s very true, friendship can last for a life time, but most friends we don’ get chance to see them, we only communicate with them on wechat or facebook by texting or seeing posting.
In China, if you have never left your hometown since you were born, lucky you, you can hang up with lifetime classmates, friends. But if you pursue a dream go to a bigger city like Shanghai etc. or like me, being overseas. After finished my degree, almost half friends returned back to their own countries, cheap snapback hats, and most others getting married and having kids. There are very few left you can count on for sharing your feeling whenever you need them.
Then you might have to join activities in order to know more new friends, but all the relationship, friendship can’t help you out from feeling loneliness, they are just temporary for a short time companionship. Most time you have to be alone.
How do I know it? Because I have experienced exactly the same feeling as you guys, being bored, being lonely, looking for someone else help me out, but in vain. It was until I started English writing, especially created wechat account : Englishpassion, I am becoming so busy, active, happy and energetic, it is like a lifetime friend who accompany me all my life.
Sorry, I don’t mean friendship is not important. Truly we need friendship very much, but it also depends on the other side, you can’t fully control it. Your gift is different; it will be with you forever. Eg, someone like painting or photographing, then go for it, you might be famous one day, who knows.
You don’t have to quit your job, you can do it in your free time, it is not for money, but one day you might can use your gift making money once you master it. Anyway, fake oakley sunglasses, it will make your life full, you are fulfilling your potential, that’s the reason we come to this world.
As it is said passion is a powerful driving force that helps us live with energy and excitement, and helps us live life to the fullest, therefore, find out your unique gift, do thing with passion.
Sunday, April 16, 2017
Walking
Yesterday, it was a very nice day.The sun was shining brightly and air was comfortable.My mood was very pleased so I was walking in the public park.Suddenly, I saw a cat sleeping on the grass.But next to the cat, cheap
jerseys, a mouse was in the sun too.
cultural differences- going dutch or Chinese term "AA"
Farewell lunch for a lovely Norwegian girl
10 Years ago, I lived on campus- Chisholm College.
A very pretty Norwegian girl invited our floor mates for farewell lunch.
“Sounds great, I love it.”
When I went to the Uni canteen, my friends were queuing up in front of the canteen counter paying their own meal.
“Is that real?” I wondered, “We have to pay ourselves?”
In China
In my memory of China, when I attended birthday or farewell parties,cheap nfl jerseys, I bought one gift, the host would definitely provide a nice meal.
Aussie friends' birthdays
Once more, the time I attended one Aussie friend’s birthday party, my friend’s siblings, parents, relatives and friends were invited.
To my surprise, each guest paid own dish including my friend’s family members.
That would be the great honour if my friend received cups of free drinks in the restaurant from the people who attended the birthday party.
Once more, on one Aussie girl’s birthday, I bought her a gift, she bought guests drinks and entree platters for share, but I would not expect a free main dish from her —I’d pay my own.
In China
However, In China, the birthday person or married couples will pay for everything from entrée to the main meal, dessert, fruits, drinks even cigarettes.
In return, cheap snapbacks, guests will either buy a luxury gift or simply gives him or her red packet for Lucky money which is most popular.
In recent years, it has become increasingly stressful for both sides.
Because the food is getting better and more expensive in the restaurant which also causes the burden for guests as the red packet is becoming bigger and bigger, and sometimes it occupies a big percentage for a low-income earner.
My childhood- Chinese New Year
One of the biggest things in my childhood was Chinese New Year’s Day as I could have a few days’ feast at my Uncle’s house. (Well, that's because we usually didn't have sufficient food available that time, so New Year's day was the happiest moment.)
I do appreciate my Uncle, Aunt and others who spent the efforts, cheap replica oakleys, time and energy for preparing nice meals: 2 big tables for adults and 1 small table for kids (total around 30 people).
For Aussies, you might be surprised about that, we did give them some unprepared food and contributed a little bit cash.
Whereas we didn’t give them help except chatting, eating, playing cards, listening to the live music some relatives' playing.
Christmas Lunch with one Aussie friend's family
I used to take it for granted until I attended a Christmas dinner at one Aussie friend’s house, then I realized how comfortable life that was.
For a Christmas lunch at my friend’s place was pretty simple, it was like a potluck, each household brought a few dishes for share.
The Aussie family did organize very well beforehand, for example, one family prepared roasted meat, another one made desserts, or someone brought fruits, snacks, wholesale nfl jerseys, the rest prepared salad or cheese platter etc.
At the end of the day, everyone brought leftover home, so it’s simple and easy, which won't take a huge amount of time for the host.
In Daily life
When I had dinner at restaurants with one girl friend who has just been back from China, she insisted on paying for my part, but I said:“Let’s just split the bill, I prefer a simple friendship.”
Because we don’t have to remember that we owe each other a meal, then one day we might have to arrange the time to buy back the meal.
For splitting the bill, we can meet at any time, any restaurant, even someone else can join, which is really easy and flexible.
Chinese tradition
In China, someone with overseas' background, or young generation, or people who work in foreign-run companies are likely influenced by western culture- paying for themselves when going outside with colleagues, classmates and even friends.
The elder generation, cheap nfl hats, the Chinese culture lovers have the idea that men are supposed to pay ladies for the restaurants as they think men should be generous, look after ladies.
“That’s so mean, ask a lady share bill with me? No, I pay for all.” I would expect my dad absolutely say that to me.
I know, he’s a very traditional responsible most kind gentleman.
In China, when close friends dining out, it is quite normal, one person paying for this time, the others paying next time in order to keep a long lasting friendship, sounds good idea.
My experience in Australia
In Australia, from my experience with Aussie good friends,cheap oakley sunglasses, we split the bill, I am used to it actually and pretty much enjoy it.
10 Years ago, I lived on campus- Chisholm College.
A very pretty Norwegian girl invited our floor mates for farewell lunch.
“Sounds great, I love it.”
When I went to the Uni canteen, my friends were queuing up in front of the canteen counter paying their own meal.
“Is that real?” I wondered, “We have to pay ourselves?”
In China
In my memory of China, when I attended birthday or farewell parties,cheap nfl jerseys, I bought one gift, the host would definitely provide a nice meal.
Aussie friends' birthdays
Once more, the time I attended one Aussie friend’s birthday party, my friend’s siblings, parents, relatives and friends were invited.
To my surprise, each guest paid own dish including my friend’s family members.
That would be the great honour if my friend received cups of free drinks in the restaurant from the people who attended the birthday party.
Once more, on one Aussie girl’s birthday, I bought her a gift, she bought guests drinks and entree platters for share, but I would not expect a free main dish from her —I’d pay my own.
In China
However, In China, the birthday person or married couples will pay for everything from entrée to the main meal, dessert, fruits, drinks even cigarettes.
In return, cheap snapbacks, guests will either buy a luxury gift or simply gives him or her red packet for Lucky money which is most popular.
In recent years, it has become increasingly stressful for both sides.
Because the food is getting better and more expensive in the restaurant which also causes the burden for guests as the red packet is becoming bigger and bigger, and sometimes it occupies a big percentage for a low-income earner.
My childhood- Chinese New Year
One of the biggest things in my childhood was Chinese New Year’s Day as I could have a few days’ feast at my Uncle’s house. (Well, that's because we usually didn't have sufficient food available that time, so New Year's day was the happiest moment.)
I do appreciate my Uncle, Aunt and others who spent the efforts, cheap replica oakleys, time and energy for preparing nice meals: 2 big tables for adults and 1 small table for kids (total around 30 people).
For Aussies, you might be surprised about that, we did give them some unprepared food and contributed a little bit cash.
Whereas we didn’t give them help except chatting, eating, playing cards, listening to the live music some relatives' playing.
Christmas Lunch with one Aussie friend's family
I used to take it for granted until I attended a Christmas dinner at one Aussie friend’s house, then I realized how comfortable life that was.
For a Christmas lunch at my friend’s place was pretty simple, it was like a potluck, each household brought a few dishes for share.
The Aussie family did organize very well beforehand, for example, one family prepared roasted meat, another one made desserts, or someone brought fruits, snacks, wholesale nfl jerseys, the rest prepared salad or cheese platter etc.
At the end of the day, everyone brought leftover home, so it’s simple and easy, which won't take a huge amount of time for the host.
In Daily life
When I had dinner at restaurants with one girl friend who has just been back from China, she insisted on paying for my part, but I said:“Let’s just split the bill, I prefer a simple friendship.”
Because we don’t have to remember that we owe each other a meal, then one day we might have to arrange the time to buy back the meal.
For splitting the bill, we can meet at any time, any restaurant, even someone else can join, which is really easy and flexible.
Chinese tradition
In China, someone with overseas' background, or young generation, or people who work in foreign-run companies are likely influenced by western culture- paying for themselves when going outside with colleagues, classmates and even friends.
The elder generation, cheap nfl hats, the Chinese culture lovers have the idea that men are supposed to pay ladies for the restaurants as they think men should be generous, look after ladies.
“That’s so mean, ask a lady share bill with me? No, I pay for all.” I would expect my dad absolutely say that to me.
I know, he’s a very traditional responsible most kind gentleman.
In China, when close friends dining out, it is quite normal, one person paying for this time, the others paying next time in order to keep a long lasting friendship, sounds good idea.
My experience in Australia
In Australia, from my experience with Aussie good friends,cheap oakley sunglasses, we split the bill, I am used to it actually and pretty much enjoy it.
Thursday, April 13, 2017
Cold wind
Time proves the best vow that we have made. In the quite deep night, the wind blows on the face, yet not that cold, it tells the story of life. Whenever we feel a must to be alone, we more or less get that feeling which is the moment that we should think seriously.
On the way home, I still see leaves of willows hanging there. Probably, some days later, they completely fade away, leaving only naked branches. Winter often catalyses the process of being chilly. It is not cold, if we really face it. Hotness of the summer sometimes gives us the illusion the cold days are not there. We may just spend time having the current days. While we realise its coldness until the turning point that all of things are ready for the imminent winter, we sense that is the over of summer and the arrival of winter is already on the corner.
The temperature freezes the mind, and the flows of memory become more clearly as if they repeat the old days and as if we were living in the past. God knows. We are still here, standing on the ground. Some guys could be more fortunate to promote, others are still wondering in the puddle. Everyone was born in the different background of family and education, cheap jerseys, we gain to be unique and are doomed to be sailing to different destination. Yet, we come across many people and friends, strangers and passers. All of those man are only part of experience combined into the entire life.
Leaves will decay and livings will suffer the weathering and finally convert into rocks and sands. Thoughts should be stored into those sands and recount the legend of every common being. Whenever I put away files and take the rest, I sink into the pondering of none being which stands for everything that I might run into my mind would be the film of my own treasure. Backward, I was the guy, moving on, I am going to be the another one.
The greeting from a Long Time No See friend, sometimes, just stirs the ripples of memory. A sudden fellow who comes to be in the middle of the could either cause the painful rethinking or the warmth of friendship. Some pages of my note books now still deposit the dandelions as the ideal specimen.
On the way home, I still see leaves of willows hanging there. Probably, some days later, they completely fade away, leaving only naked branches. Winter often catalyses the process of being chilly. It is not cold, if we really face it. Hotness of the summer sometimes gives us the illusion the cold days are not there. We may just spend time having the current days. While we realise its coldness until the turning point that all of things are ready for the imminent winter, we sense that is the over of summer and the arrival of winter is already on the corner.
The temperature freezes the mind, and the flows of memory become more clearly as if they repeat the old days and as if we were living in the past. God knows. We are still here, standing on the ground. Some guys could be more fortunate to promote, others are still wondering in the puddle. Everyone was born in the different background of family and education, cheap jerseys, we gain to be unique and are doomed to be sailing to different destination. Yet, we come across many people and friends, strangers and passers. All of those man are only part of experience combined into the entire life.
Leaves will decay and livings will suffer the weathering and finally convert into rocks and sands. Thoughts should be stored into those sands and recount the legend of every common being. Whenever I put away files and take the rest, I sink into the pondering of none being which stands for everything that I might run into my mind would be the film of my own treasure. Backward, I was the guy, moving on, I am going to be the another one.
The greeting from a Long Time No See friend, sometimes, just stirs the ripples of memory. A sudden fellow who comes to be in the middle of the could either cause the painful rethinking or the warmth of friendship. Some pages of my note books now still deposit the dandelions as the ideal specimen.
my first footprint in this website
The ring of Gyges I
There was once a shepherd named Gyges in the service of the rule of Lydia. There was a gaint thunderstorm, cheap fake oakleys, and an earthquake broke open the ground and created a chasm at the place where he was tending his sheep. Seeing this, he was filled with amazement and went down into it. And there he saw a hollow bronze horse. There was window-like openings in it, and peeking in, he saw a corpse wearing nothing but a gold ring on his finger. So he took the ring and came out of the chasm. He wore the ring at his usual monthly meeting that reported to the king on the state of the flocks. And as he was sitting among the others, he happened to turn the setting of the ring towards himself, to the inside of the hand. And when he did this, he became invisible to those sitting near him, and they went on talking as if he had gone. He wondered about this, and fingering the ring, he turned the setting outwards again, and became visible, So he experimented with the ring to test whether it indeed had this power,cheap snapback hats, and it did. If he turned the setting inward, he became invisible, and if he turned it outward, he became visible again. When he realized this, he arranged to become one of the messengers sent to report to the king. And when he arrived there, he seduced the king's wife, with her help,attacked and killed the king, and took over the kingdom.
Having squandered my time for the sake of some temptation, I finally and fortunately found a plausible way to get out of the backwater. Without the basic common college student's social practice, I need a way just to say something, conforming to the rule and calming down to think of my own life.
Morality and law is a everlasting topic in human history. This story can be a good starting point,cheap oakleys, though a little superstitious and increadible. What's more, a well-known conclusion following that those who act in conformity with the moral code of their society do so because they lack the power to do injustice.It's more about hypocrite and saint. Further study is going on.
There was once a shepherd named Gyges in the service of the rule of Lydia. There was a gaint thunderstorm, cheap fake oakleys, and an earthquake broke open the ground and created a chasm at the place where he was tending his sheep. Seeing this, he was filled with amazement and went down into it. And there he saw a hollow bronze horse. There was window-like openings in it, and peeking in, he saw a corpse wearing nothing but a gold ring on his finger. So he took the ring and came out of the chasm. He wore the ring at his usual monthly meeting that reported to the king on the state of the flocks. And as he was sitting among the others, he happened to turn the setting of the ring towards himself, to the inside of the hand. And when he did this, he became invisible to those sitting near him, and they went on talking as if he had gone. He wondered about this, and fingering the ring, he turned the setting outwards again, and became visible, So he experimented with the ring to test whether it indeed had this power,cheap snapback hats, and it did. If he turned the setting inward, he became invisible, and if he turned it outward, he became visible again. When he realized this, he arranged to become one of the messengers sent to report to the king. And when he arrived there, he seduced the king's wife, with her help,attacked and killed the king, and took over the kingdom.
Having squandered my time for the sake of some temptation, I finally and fortunately found a plausible way to get out of the backwater. Without the basic common college student's social practice, I need a way just to say something, conforming to the rule and calming down to think of my own life.
Morality and law is a everlasting topic in human history. This story can be a good starting point,cheap oakleys, though a little superstitious and increadible. What's more, a well-known conclusion following that those who act in conformity with the moral code of their society do so because they lack the power to do injustice.It's more about hypocrite and saint. Further study is going on.
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